I'm very self conscience about my vagina?

My Mom likes to call it the "family curse." Hahahaha. I have, what seems like, a regular sized outer labia, but I have a very large inner labia. It protrudes outside of my outer labia. I'm so self conscience about this that I won't even let my boyfriend really look at it. Let alone eat me out. I feel like I should get surgery to have it reduced in size. Is this normal? Will he be appalled by this?